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Councilman Van Bramer and partner celebrate end of Don’t ask don’t Tell


The Senate voted Saturday to end the 17-year ban on openly gay troops, overturning the Clinton-era policy known as “don’t ask, don’t tell.”

“I was in tears about it,” says Dan Hendrick, a gay veteran who was discharged from the United States Navy over 19 years ago for being gay. At the time, he was struggling with his sexuality and expressed interest in another servicemember who he thought was gay.

“He actually went to the authorities,” he says. The “don’t ask, don’t tell” rule was not in effect yet, so Henrick was honorably discharged and still received military benefits. But it thrust him out of the closet to his family and friends. His military friends turned their backs on him out of fear they would be next.

“It was devastating to me personally,” he says. He was only 21 when it happened.

Henrick now lives with New York City Councilman Jimmy Van Bramer, an outspoken advocate for gay rights. He said he sees the repeal of “dont ask, don’t tell” as a step towards further equality for the gay and lesbian community.

“I hope it’s an acknowledgement that the over 13,000 gay men and lesbians who were removed from the military for being gay,” he says. “It’s an acknowledgement that their service was indeed important and worthy.”

The change won’t take immediate effect, however. The legislation says the president and his top military advisers must certify that lifting the ban won’t hurt troops’ fighting ability. After that, there’s a 60-day waiting period for the military.

The repeal means that for the first time in U.S. history, gays will be openly accepted by the military and can acknowledge their sexual orientation without fear of being discharged. Thousands of gay service members have been dismissed under the 1993 law. Before that, they had been explicitly barred from military service since World War I.

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Meanwhile, Jimmy, who is a nice guy, unfortunately voted for 371(a) which would gag crisis pregnancy centers which have done so much to help poor women and their babies. This is an anti-free speech bill and Jimmy should have known better than to vote for this. Respect works both ways. Young women have been maimed at the awful Choices abortion mill in Long Island City and at Planned Parenthood. And PP workers have been caught on tape during sting operations advising “pimps” how to get abortions for underage “prostitutes” (sex slave workers). This bill will hurt women and children. Jimmy, we expected better from you. Choice is a constant parade of hurt, mostly minority women who are being exploited by the abortion lobby and their wealthy pals.


Mike Novak

Jimmy Van Bramer has worked tirelessly for the PEOPLE who elected him, unlike some of his predecessors. My wife and family support Jimmy 100%. I wish more elected officials were as concerned with their constituents as Jimmy Van Bramer is.


Sunny Skies

Dan thanks for sharing your story – this is such an important milestone in U.S. armed forces history



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